One of the most common excuses against same-sex marriage is, ‘the children, the children, but what about the children?!?’ Well Sophie, a girl who’s mom just recently married her best girlfriend in 2010, says that she’s fine and well adjusted in this short interview conducted by her aunt.

But she does discuss the pain she felt when her best friend ended their friendship based solely on Sophie’s new family. Maybe what’s hurting kids isn’t having two loving parents, regardless of their gender, but rather society’s negative reaction to anything considered ‘out of the norm.’