Since the beginning, man and woman have been arguing over how to fix their problems. More often than not, women just want their man to listen to their problems, and not always try and fix everything.

But men can’t help it. Especially when we see a big, sharp object obviously stabbing you in the head, we can’t help but offer the sound advice that maybe you should remove the projectile.

Jason Headley demonstrates this recurring conversation in this hilarious short film, It’s Not About The Nail, that has garnered over 3 million views since debuting 5 weeks ago.